So here it is again, the wedding season is surrounding us with its usual flurry of fraught and fantastic brides. Keeping a level head is important coming up to the last few weeks before your wedding – this is generally the time when some brides tend to ‘lose it’. Having been part of thousands of weddings over the last seven years, my advice to you is this – keep a focus on why the wedding is happening, remember that you and he are the important bits of the wedding and that sharing a common goal is key. Get lots of sleep, if you can, and yes I know this sounds clichéd, but get a small notebook and write down ANYTHING that is on your mind before you go to bed and park it there until the morning. Everything seems more manageable when you are not tired. Eat well. No-one likes to see a scrawny bride.
If you are worried about being the centre of attention and everyone looking at you going down the aisle, remember everyone is there because you invited them and they are there because they love and support you and are there to give you that support on your wedding day.
Things will happen; brides are late, it can rain, flower girls don’t want to put on their dresses – it is part of the memories that you will remember with fondness in the future. These are the things that make us human and it is human to worry about perfection, but it will be perfect in its own way – your way.
Everything is always 100 times better than one ever imagines on their wedding day, so take heart, a deep breath and look forward to the most fantastic day of your life.
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